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Join Date: Jul 2005
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go buy a new car... thats what i did got dumped went and brought a brand new car 2 days later
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i like to be stroked
Join Date: Dec 2004
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i know where ur at and i wouldnt sit around for 6 mths being loyal and expecting things to get back the way they were, once u have both had time to think, act and do the things u did b4 u met then you will both be different people, i would take this as a non voilent split and move upwards and onwards, if u get back in 6mths then the ugly green monster will be very busy inside of u wondering what if, did she and when will she do it again,,,, get my drift. Love is pure and simple. u have it or u dont, if u do then good but once its gone it never comes back the way it was the first time
what do i know? i just lost my wife and 2 kids last month , that feeling will never go away.
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i like to be stroked
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i want X girl naked pics if it doesnt work out mate ...LOL
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Join Date: Jun 2006
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Permit a female perspective - I agree with gtfpv and your fellow lads don't kid yourself that she'll be having a 6 month drought - get back out there, get busy and go on a holiday. Count urself lucky it happened now and not later on down the track.
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Sorry to hear about the breakup dude however i personally think you should take a look at the situation from a different prospective - it could've been much worse. You could've been engaged to her, you could've been married to her and you could've even had kids with her. The reality of the situation is that you've invested 1 and a bit years in a relationship that failed. I've got two mates that were with girls for 5.5 years and it all fell to the s***. All the ground work was done in both cases - meeting parents, parents meeting parents, families meeting families (being greek this is very important!) - they were in so DEEP that all that was left was a ring and a ceremony and it still fell apart.
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Join Date: Jun 2006
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its hard to overcome a split from some1 u love but best thing is to be with mates, keep yerself busy an keep that chin up...god ave been dumped soo meny times an i know how u feel.
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Join Date: Jul 2005
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You really need to talk to her and find out why. If you think she's the one for you and you know each other really well, then you should both be able to talk about it openly. It's true that she might need some time - maybe she's trying to make some decisions and she doesn't want to change her future with you in mind, because you might not be a sure bet... When I was 17 I told a guy (23) that I needed some space and that I did want to go out with him again AND (shock horror) I meant it. I was finishing up high school and there was some going on and I felt a bit hemmed in... He went off and started going out with his friend 1 month later, then they were engaged 3 mths after that - now have 2 kids, mortgage etc. etc. He made his choice. I know he's not extremely happy but for his sake I really hope that on the whole he is. I'm not saying him and I would have been together forever, but at the time, I did believe I needed space but I wanted to get back with him... So that's just my 2c now ![]() |
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not a ford
Join Date: Jul 2005
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Oh and quit bagging the women - men do a whole lot of bad stuff too... Think of this situation as 2 partners trying to sort stuff out, and we're trying to help out partner A - not 'women are blah blah blah'
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heard this twice before, both times, "she" had some one else... but I guess its possible. just statistically not probable..
I'll just say I hope she was honest, nothing impresses me more than honesty, likewise dishonesty has a real negative impact on me. not only do you lose the "LUB", but also the respect for the other person... ps... not sure this is a "woman" bagging convo, seems most guys just telling it from their perspective, but its good to hear the females have a say too.. ;) wanted: honest female, apply within. |
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Join Date: Dec 2004
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Well, we've had annother conversation- its over. For the moment anyway..neither of us are ready for other people yet either..she just wanted to be single again...probably felt like i was an anchor or something. Anyway- i told her im not going to talk to her for a while, just to help me move on...i gave a lot for her and it's going to take some time for me to be able to get over her.
Thanks again for all your advice...i know each of you have had your own experience but im glad this didnt end bitterly. We will stay in touch. Now its time for some :baby bott :sm_headba hehe |
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FF.Com.Au Hardcore
Join Date: Dec 2004
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That's why she's telling you :( I've been told that story before. In my experience the relationship is dead and your ex Mrs will find someone else if she hasn't already.
I've just about heard them all when it comes to break up. I've used quite a few myself too in my younger years. I just got bored and needed something more exciting. Some irony? You always think what would have it been like if I had of stayed with that person. What would it have been like if I were older etc etc. An example : One of my first real girl friends (she was very committed to me). My parents allowed her to move into our home. I was 18 and she was 16! I dumped her as I couldn't stand her telling my mum about our bedroom activity. My mums quite open it's embarrasing! She wouldn't move out and my parents didn't want her to go. She really was a keeper but being young ![]() Don't dewell on it and move on.
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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I'm glad it wasn't a bitter break up for you and you could talk sensibly about it. Lots of people can't even talk to their x's after a break up without getting seriously angry and absolutely hating each other!
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FF.Com.Au Hardcore
Join Date: Dec 2004
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Best not dwell on the past and move on.
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I agree with JM, don't ever take them back. I had a break and got back together, and it was never the same. Cut them loose, grieve, but make sure you don't jump straight into another relationship. Take time to work out who you are, what you want out of life and the type of person you want by your side, and then don't settle for anything less!! The best thing I ever did, I am now streaks ahead of where I used to be, know exactly what I want and where I'm headed, and am besottedly in love with the man of my dreams.
Good luck, it may seem like the world has fallen down on top of you, but it will get better. All the best Christine. |
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Official AFF conservative
Join Date: Dec 2004
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![]() It sucks to hear what's happened and i sincerely hope you dont get too down about it all. On the same token - make sure you make some time to reflect... this stuff wont deal with itself. Just dont get TOO hung up on it. Life goes on i'm afraid. I wouldnt recommend it immediately but when you're ready, make sure your buddies take you out for a night on the town - your goals on such a night should be clear ![]() And yeah - dont be bitter about anything, it'll do you more of a dis service than her. Even if it was the most unfair break up of all time and she left your heart for dead - dont be bitter (wasted too much time of my own life doing this... thank god for the mate who belted me around the chops and told me to snap out of it!!!). Lol, ive come to the conclusion that all women are the same (evil, to put it nicely) - but dont let it bother you and dont hold it against them... expect the worst and you'll never be disappointed ![]() (PS ladies - that's not an attack... just an observation!)
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Thanks for that advice Futura, Its been a bit a a journey..
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Official AFF conservative
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The female is the "selector" in our species... no denying that. If power in the physical world is such an efficient way to corrupt someone... imagine what that means at a biological level lol...
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Join Date: Dec 2004
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hehe..true...I just dont want an inherently evil girlfriend
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