Need some advice, particularly from female persuasion.

[XRchic]

Originally Posted by popinfresh

Yeah, I understand that. I have depression as well, lol. I think my girlfriend understood the whole 'bed' thing well enough, because it was really just a doonah on the floor, lol. I should have mentioned as well I suppose that the other girl had a seperate blanket wrapped around her, so it wasn't like intimate/close quaters sort of thing =) I know what you're saying though.

Thats good, it sounds like you have a pretty decent, understanding girlfriend! Lets hope its all good now then and you can cheer up a bit

Jac

[fiery]

Originally Posted by popinfresh

I told her a couple nights a go. She was a bit quite to start with, but took it allright. She was glad I was honest etc and didn't hold anything against me, which was a relief.

She's upset/angry at the other girl as you can imagine, which may make things a little awkward when she see's her, but what can you do?

Well done for telling her and being honest.. that is the biggest part of any relationship (honesty and trust)...

Things will take a bit of time to completely settle I am sure, but it will in time..

Forget the other girl... she should not be in close contact with you and I certainly would not let her anywhere near your girlfriend... ing_sm

Glad things are ok though

[Van D]

Originally Posted by fiery

Well done for telling her and being honest.. that is the biggest part of any relationship (honesty and trust)...

Things will take a bit of time to completely settle I am sure, but it will in time..

Forget the other girl... she should not be in close contact with you and I certainly would not let her anywhere near your girlfriend... ing_sm

Glad things are ok though

Yeah, I havn't spoken to her or anything since. Only hard thing is i'm in a class with her thats very interactive.. And there's plenty of parties where my girlfriend will probably see her =/ That's what i'm worried about, lol.

Oh well, it'll settle sometime.

Thanks for the help fiery =)