Okay so I found the PIN layout order swapped the 4 wires around
everything worked like I had hoped but came across a new problem
not mentioned on the board anywhere.
What was happening was when I start the car everything looked fine until
I needed to put the lights on. With Parkers the Odometer light would go
out.
The pin layout is as follows in the following image.
I had to do a lot of meter testing to find my answer on the next problem.
The Od lights going out with parkers on is a earthing problem from pin 15
on the 2nd connector. I found by jumping the wire from 13 to 1 fixed the
lighting problem with Od not lighting up with Parkers.
As I don't know if the white wire on pin 15 serves any other purpose
I thought it would be a better idea to put a Diode between 15 and 1
to allow power pass one way with Parker lights on. This works perfectly.
The following images shows the finished project
